Working Through Intimacy

Posted: March 30, 2016 by admin

Unfortunately, most of us grow up thinking, “love is easy or effortless” and the thought of working on a relationship itself is perceived as a tedious task. We hesitate in our hearts and minds to “work through it” because relationships that require work are difficult relationships. Thanks to the information we pick up during our growing years through movies or books, where love is all about oneness, sunsets and did I forget to mention easy. Boy meets girl, falls in love and they zoom off somewhere lovely!

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Is This Love?

Posted: December 27, 2011

Yeah! Well, so – we’ve been together for two years and she is wonderful in every sense – he gushed. I haven’t felt this way for anyone in a long time. I just have a gut feel about her – and it’s good. But, I want to know – is this for real? Is this really “the” love for keeps? Or you know – he cleared his throat politely, I should just ummm play it by the ear?

Do I follow my heart or stick to my job?

Posted: December 25, 2011

Are you feeling in charge?
Is your sense of self-empowerment so thorough that you feel like taking a gamble?
Are there area’s where you are accomplished and are ready to go to the next level?
Do you wish to embark on a new project or enterprise?
How could you take this pioneering spirit and apply it to your life to achieve a new level of success?
Do you believe in yourself and that you are deserving of abundance in your life?

I want my wife to leave her work..

Posted: December 18, 2011

But there’s one important thing to consider when we get disappointed – we feel that way because an expectation we had is not fulfilled, whether by ourselves or by somebody else. It’s important now to give some thought to forgiveness. You don’t forgive others for THEIR sake, or because they “deserve it,” necessarily, you do it for your own sake, because holding on to anger and pain is toxic and bad for you.

Love and Deception

Posted: October 30, 2011

He finally met a rather lovely young woman. After meeting a couple of times and figuring since their work was pretty similar – it seemed like a workable situation. He came for a guidance since he had been having sleepless nights and “something he couldn’t put a finger on” feeling was constantly gnawing his insides. I was surprised to see the moon card prominently feature with 7 of wands. On being asked not to rush and wait at least six months. I met him again some months back – still single. It seems the lovely woman had been in another relationship for the last 5 years but because the man she was involved with refused to commit – she chose to get married yet stay involved.

Be the Star that you are!

Posted: October 24, 2011

In Tarot, the Star is always trotted out as one of the most beautiful cards. Then why, when I see it, doesn’t it make me happy? It could be that the Star is cautioning me that though I will be happy – it’ll be a while and this somehow dampens my happiness. We all need instant gratification. It’s usually super to see the Star coming up for what a romantic partner thinks of you, but that too kind of irritates because inevitably the ones who always think the Star of you are the ones who also keep you at a distance. Like you’re up on some lofty pedestal or something.