It’s rare to find love that does not want to change you, own you or be threatened by you. Love that revels in you being you. Love that is non – judgmental that encourages you to grow. I like to think of this as a soul connect. It’s as though the souls have known each other from before and when we meet the connect happens.
I have felt this telepathic connect with someone I loved dearly – since I was very young. I just knew that it was him. It’s the kind of relationship that flows gently on it’s own – without any effort. I have felt this with few friends as well. The telepathic connect – where you understand each other and endless explanations are not required.
I am here for a reason as are you – each one of you. Choice is to turn your grief into a fuel that moves mountains or allow it destroy you. For the truth is, when the emotional debris settles – which it does over a period of time there will be a life that would have to be led.
How you choose to lead it – it up to you. Either with dignity and courage or feeling paralyzed with grief. The thing with grieving is – it never really goes away. You learn to manage the pain. You have to find your reason. What is it that motivates you? Moves you? Search within yourself and you’ll find not just the answers but also the strength to stand.
Learn to walk light, leave the baggage down. It’s a long journey. And the road can get treacherous. Wear your pain easily as you would wear your happiness. Even when you feel it’s killing you – tread gently. Don’t let grief and despair chain you. Don’t be in a hurry to heal and be whole. If you feel broken, so be it – let the gaps get filled with understanding and compassion.
You will be fine, this is my promise. You will listen to music again, dance again celebrate life. Yes, you may have that hole in your gut that refuses to fill – and that’s OK as well. Let it be a reminder that you’re capable of loving wholly and truly as you could.
In Tarot, the sign associated with the Lovers is Gemini. The two figures in the Lovers card are blessed and protected by the angel in the clouds above them. Angels, in general, represent the refinement of earthly desires. This angel, in particular, is Raphael, the angel of Air. One of the associations of Air is communication, necessary for a healthy relationship.
The Lovers represent perfection, harmony and mutual attractiveness. Their trust in one another gives them strength and confidence to overcome the obstacles in life. The bond that the two lovers has created is incredibly strong and is often reflective of a marriage, soul mate connection or very intimate and close relationship.
Eternal Love : Utopia
When your life gets too lonely
It might help to feel me in your heart
I remember you happy
But thought it unfair that we are apart
And it’s gonna be alright
‘Cause everlasting love
Will get us through the night
There’s a new day that’s dawning
It brings with it skies, so blue and clear
I can’t offer you blue skies
I’ve only got love, eternal love
Love, eternal love